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Joey D
01-02-2009, 04:27 AM
...and it was incredible.

I wanted to give a "first opinions,' account on my trip to Boston, which I am doing right now, and I was trying to think of the pros and cons. I'll list the cons first (which were really hard to think of.)

Cons:

The city is laid out confusingly, and I was frequently puzzled at where to go to get somewhere.

Boston is a little too clean, as even the older parts felt new, just because it was so clean.

That's all for cons.

Pros:

Growing up in Wilmington, and being in Philly half the time, and living there, and staying with family in Queens growing up, and jotting up there from time to time, I thought the more northeast you went, the snottier, more arrogant, conceited, and colder people got.

Wrong! I kept searching throughout my first day in Boston (out of 3 days,) for a snotty, crappy attitude I had heard of, but did not find any. Every person I talked to who was from Boston (I asked,) was more than helpful, smiled, and open and conversational.

Even the MBTA and the Boston cops were quick to drop what they were doing to help me get where I was going. No NY/Philly 'tude here.. what a delightful surprise.

Boston feels WAY bigger than 600k residents. I often felt that I was in a part of Manhattan when in the downtown area.

I thought I was gonna hate hearing the Boston accent after a while, but it actually became endearing after a day and a half, after I learned not to associate "r" dropping with being cold, impersonal, and ignorant.

Two people slipped in the snow while I was there. Both times, people dropped what they were doing, came over, and helped the person up, ensuring they were ok, before moving on.

Transit is excellent. I didn't understand what I was doing, so I asked an MBTA transit worker. If this was SEPTA, I would have regretted asking a question to a transit employee, which I expected.. but this woman was totally different, again.

The MBTA worker went through a small education seminar with me at the spot how the T is like a spider, and the belly was Park street, how each line had an opposing branch, and the spiders' legs going out was outbound, in was inbound. I smiled the whole time out of my outright surprise with how helpful the woman was.

People were hot, like LA hot. I really thought I was in LA for a while, with all the friendly, goodlooking people, but then I saw the snow, and remembered I was in the northeast.

Anyways, Bostonians, quite the city you have, and you should be proud. No wonder it's so expensive - it's worth it! :)

To anybody considering a Boston trip, DO IT! It's one of my favorite cities in the US now.

Crawford
01-02-2009, 05:20 AM
Hot ladies and gents in Bawston?:shrug:

Maybe you were wandering around BU or Northeastern?

Boston is a great town, but I am surprised at your observations on hotness and MBTA customer service.

After six years of college and grad school, I never found Bostonians to be hot or T workers to be friendly. I certainly don't think your average T token clerk is any nicer than your average SEPTA clerk.

blade_bltz
01-02-2009, 06:01 AM
Nice account of your trip! The hotness thing is hilarious, esp. given Bostonians' less than stellar reputation in the attractiveness category. Unfortunately I'm not one to verify your observations, since my experience growing up in the area wasn't really representative - I went to high school with a whole lot of people from W towns (rich Boston burbs, many of which start with the letter W). Where there is money, there is bound to be hotness.

Capsule F
01-02-2009, 07:04 AM
Boston was fine, a little too straightlaced and traditional for my taste. I found the attractiveness of the people the same as most places i travel to.

Kingofthehill
01-02-2009, 08:11 AM
I'm not sure about LA women...

Firstly, I live here and go ALL OVER the city and can vouch that the bulk of our women are less-than desirable Indians from Latin America (I'm not joking!). It's sooooo overrated as a whole. A good amount of people come here looking for palm tree-studded streets with conspicuous models sipping ridiculously overpriced lattes. What they see is overweight Michoacans and Jalsciense living in decaying, gang-infested,garbage-strewn neighborhoods with parked on the front lawn. Deceit at it's finest.

(p.s: nothing wrong with Michoacans and Jaliscience-it's just not what pops into some folks' heads when thinking of LA women)

jonjj
01-02-2009, 11:32 AM
I lived in Boston for four years and then moved to Baltimore. I love both towns but I will say that Bostonians are generally a bit thinner. That may have to do with the transit and the thought they they walk a lot more than the average Joe. It seems that towns with better transit have thinner folks. I may be wrong on that generalization but I have observed it in many of my travels without mentioning specific cities.

Joey D
01-02-2009, 04:11 PM
I am a bit aggressive when it comes to getting service, so maybe I broke through the Boston 'tude, but Boston is still way up there when it comes to customer service in general.

Maybe most of my observations are comparing general interaction with that of Philly's, which is piss poor (sorry Philly.) I just didn't find the unwillingness to help people, and the blatant disregard for respect that I would have expected.


My Boswash friendly meter from nicest to worst:

Baltimore
Boston
Washington
...
Wilmington/Trenton/Atlantic City
South Jersey burbs
...
Camden
...
North Jersey
...
Philadelphia/New York

I would have expected Boston to be on the bottom, so maybe it was an expectations game.

alexjon
01-02-2009, 04:47 PM
Some people like mean, though. That's why I call my folks back home in San Antonio, so I can hear "What, are you stupid?" chained together several times in a rambling run-on.

Nice can become off-putting, especially when it's too nice.

EastSideHBG
01-02-2009, 05:16 PM
Joey D, I had my first trip to Boston at the end of Sept. and I could not agree with your assessment any more! :) I also think that much of our outlook has to do with when comparing it to Philly.

I'd move to Boston in a heartbeat. In fact, we're even kicking the idea around.

statler
01-02-2009, 05:22 PM
Some people like mean, though. That's why I call my folks back home in San Antonio, so I can hear "What, are you stupid?" chained together several times in a rambling run-on.

Nice can become off-putting, especially when it's too nice.

Oh, shut up jackass! That's the most retarded thing I've ever heard. :hell:





;)

alexjon
01-02-2009, 05:33 PM
Oh, shut up jackass! That's the most retarded thing I've ever heard. :hell:

It's true!

I can't handle the kid gloves approach to interaction, it is grating. I respond better to "Hey, do this for me" than I do "Um, do you think you could maybe possibly" which is the standard on the west coast.

Wheelingman04
01-03-2009, 01:38 AM
I love Boston, but is like a "Boutique City." Very high class.

M. Brown
01-03-2009, 05:23 AM
The Boston accent is my favorite. Listen to this guy. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbK4cL3QSc0&feature=related)

LMich
01-03-2009, 05:28 AM
I get a kick out of New Englanders when they say the word "lobster".

statler
01-03-2009, 03:08 PM
I love Boston, but is like a "Boutique City." Very high class.

Boston has a weird reputation.

It is either seen as 'high class' (Back Bay, Beacon Hill, South End) or 'rough and tumble' (Southie, Dorchester, or in Good Will Hunting, The Departed, etc) yet every other city has this same mix of high end and low end areas. Why does it seem more extreme in people evaluations of Boston?

Scruffy
01-03-2009, 03:17 PM
im a huge fan of boston. i agree that it feels far larger than 600k

PaSkyX
01-03-2009, 04:40 PM
For whatever reason, I thought Boston had a slightly similar feel to Seattle, although I definitely prefer Seattle to Boston. Although I have to say, cities with subways are a huge +, IMO.

seaskyfan
01-03-2009, 06:16 PM
For whatever reason, I thought Boston had a slightly similar feel to Seattle, although I definitely prefer Seattle to Boston. Although I have to say, cities with subways are a huge +, IMO.

That's interesting - I thought I was the only one who thought that. I'm from the Boston area and have lived in Seattle for years. Seattle has never felt that far from New England to me.

Boston folks can be outwardly rude/distant but when you break through the outer shell they're as nice as you'll find anywhere. The Boston sense of humor tends to be pretty sarcastic, so it can take some getting used to. I know what folks mean about the attractiveness factor - people don't seem to age that well in Boston. Folks look haggard, which seems to be a combination of being too thin (especially the women) and tanning too much in the summer.

volguus zildrohar
01-04-2009, 04:40 AM
I've also got nothing but glowing things to say about Boston. It's a great place to visit and a beautiful specimen of a city through the years.

Joey and EastSide, you guys hate us now, don't you?

Joey D
01-04-2009, 06:03 AM
I've also got nothing but glowing things to say about Boston. It's a great place to visit and a beautiful specimen of a city through the years.

Joey and EastSide, you guys hate us now, don't you?

Oh, I've always hated Philadelphians ;) Especially the ones I'm related to.

My normal family was always from Jersey anyway :sly:

rockyi
01-04-2009, 03:04 PM
My brothers family lives in Medford MA with a beautiful view of DT Boston from their backyard. I love visiting them, which I'm planning on doing again this summer. I found Bostonians to be very friendly......until they get behind the wheel of a car then, watch out!!!
As for you saying it's too clean?.....I live in a filthy metro and I don't think there's such a thing as "TOO clean". Basically I'm sick to death of boarded-up buildings, unkempt properties and trashy streets....yay grit.
I'll take too clean any day.

EastSideHBG
01-04-2009, 04:05 PM
Joey and EastSide, you guys hate us now, don't you?
Hate? No no, that's far too strong of a word. But a strong dislike for the pointless bad attitudes and the major chip on the shoulder? Yeah, that's probably more accurate.

:D



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