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Many Gay men do not consider themselves to be 'queer', though. When I think "queer" I don't think negatively, but I do think of a certain type of person (read hipster, activist type, maybe). As a gay man who is, for lack of a better word, conformist, holds a 'regular' 9-5 job, and is otherwise domesticated, I don't think the term applies to me personally.