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Originally Posted by The North One
I don't know what the hell to do
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I'm sure some may disagree, but unless they are flaunting it in your face, and/or explicitly asking your to keep their secrets, I don't see the need for you to tell the other exactly what the other is doing (or what you think the other is doing) unless you're directly asked by one of them. Barring them coming to you, or one of them being totally in the dark as to what's going on, I don't see it as your place to "get" the other one in trouble, especially if you have secrets of your own you are not willing to share in the context of the family. I also would assume that each of them already knows or has a good guess as to the fidelity status of the other. Since this is really affecting you, I'd go to each of them seperately, and tell them very clearly that you know what's going on, and what it's doing to you and what you think it's doing to the family.
I wish you luck, buddy. The family issues you're dealing with are hard, no doubt.