Posted Jul 26, 2015, 6:26 AM
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the city has had a recent change in the last 5years or so. there are less and less passers-by that fail to greet w/ a hello, smile, or wave. less concern for helping neighbors (people who we don't necessarily know, but are in the community.) i have seen two accidents recently. one lady tripped stepping down off the sidewalk and landed on one knee. no one came to her aide, even though several were around. i was too far away, but i was really surprised to see the people pass by w/out even a gesture to help. a communicant caught his wood leg under the kneeler at the cathedral of immaculate conception, and it probably took two minutes to free himself from his snare. perhaps, some thought it would be embarrassing to draw attention to the situation, others may have spent a bit more time communing w/ God, but one would have thought the ushers would have helped, at the very least.
i'm not saying that it is because of so many who are from the north or extreme west, but it seems to be harder and harder to find that wonderful southern accent. some of us were discussing this over drinks the other night, and some stated that imc "snobby" anyway, and they have always been so. i disagreed, and made a similar comment about the ones outside of the southern region. interestingly, most agreed w/ that statement, an at least 5 of those present were reared in the north. while one had recently moved to memphis from portland, oregon. a few in the group stated that they were surprised over the number of people who failed to speak, while in elevators, meeting in doorways, etc., as they thought people would be much more open and talkative. others, however, indicated that they were completely surprised that memphis was so different than what they expected. the main comments were that it was much larger than they had been told or assumed, surprised at the number of jews and catholics in the city, and two found that their move was refreshing and exciting, as their northern section of the country was more like a small township, even though it was a metro area. memphis was much more urban than they expected. so, i thought this was a good conversation, and it seems that most areas of the country are fairly similar.
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