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Originally Posted by wave46
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O-tacular,
"It was the best of time and it was the worst of times..."
People still had kids and believed in the future in 1942, when Nazism had spread across most of Europe and the Japanese empire had a huge chunk of the Pacific.
People still had kids in the 1950s, when the forces of Communism had spread across Eastern Europe and China and the Soviet Union seemed to leave the West in the dust by launching Sputnik.
People still had kids in the oil crunches, inflationary spirals and stagflation of the 1970s.
This too shall pass.
Indeed, perhaps these times are a catharsis. For the 'liberal order' that previously governed got soft, fat and contented. It forgot about those who had been left behind by the changes of the past 20 years. It isolated itself as part of the elite and became surprisingly tone-deaf to the needs of those who had propelled it to power.
I look forward to the future. I think these times are a necessity. It reminds us of what we stand for in the West and reminds us that perhaps being fat and contented is not the ultimate goal of humanity. Maybe humanity needs a purpose.
That's why I wish you and your family the best. Maybe the next generation will find purpose in correcting our generation's mistakes - that's why we need the next generation.
Enjoy the adventure of raising kids, O-tac. Also, tune out the background noise a bit - social media, news, etc. - and treasure the simple moments of real life.
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I agree with everything you've said and I believe it's incumbent upon us to remind those around us
just how good we've got it.
However, I'll just point out the obvious point that birth rates are down significantly
from a century ago (in the West, that is). We're having fewer children (~1.5) and we're starting much later (~30 years).
There are many reasons for this that we don't need to go over again (eg birth control, women in the workplace, economic prosperity, loss of religion...), but I do wonder how much of it has to do with pessimism about our future. People still had children in the face of Vietnam, nuclear annihilation, environmental pollution, etc., but there's no doubt these shocks significantly contributed to lowering our birth rates. With those issues mostly in the rear view mirror, we've started to make things up to wring our hands over (eg the patriarchy, gender this and that, alt right racists, toxic masculinity...). We should be singing in the streets but alas...
I know many people who don't see our society as fit to bring a child into - what a shame but I suppose it is the destiny of all civilisations to devour themselves. I'd love us to throw caution to the wind, however, and go back in time a little: marry sooner, and have more children. Who knows? This might just make us happier!