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Originally Posted by Ayreonaut
But I know this is definitely not how/when she had planned it.
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There was a reason that she moved back to Spain
. Women never plan like men. Some women think that their objectively unreasonable, but subjectively reasonable actions (hoping that he uses a condom, forgetting a few pills, forgetting that some OTC meds will counteract birth control...) are a plan NOT to get pregnant.
Anyway, you're a good friend to your ex. If I had been dumped I would be cordial, but curt with her. I certainly wouldn't want to be a "shoulder to cry on." But even my own mother calls me an "asshole", "jerk," and/or "rude/evil" so take my advice with a grain of salt.