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Originally Posted by djmk
I have kids. I know what I'm talking about.
Your choice not to have kids has nothing to do with the government.
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Agreed. People who think raising kids to a high standard requires a lot of money are delusional. The reality is that raising kids isn't much more expensive than not doing so.
You simply reallocate the money you spend on avocado toast. Especially if it's only 1 or 2 kids. That's a joke, by the way.
Anyhow, blaming the government for choosing not start a family is silly. Anyone with kids will tell you that. If they don't, they're probably one of those parents that spend all their time working thinking they're doing it for their kids, when essentially they don't ever get to know what the kids really need or want.
Anecdotal story time: A co-worker had her kids ask her if she could work part time. She was a successful DBA who worked full-time. She said... "If I don't go to work, we'll have to go down to 1 income and you can't have your soccer lessons, and ballet lessons." The response from the kids... "That's okay, we'll get to spend more time with you, then." After telling me this, she said to me: "Today was the hardest day ever to come into work."
Kids don't require a lot of money and stuff and things. They thrive the best on time. And no... "quality time" isn't a replacement for "quantity of time"
Pinion, you've been around for a long while so you get a pass on this one... but raising a family is more than just providing for one.