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Originally Posted by 240glt
I agree with your comments here. One thing though is that while you're right, it's become a party for mostly white gay guys (and girls... and lots of straight folks) there's a lot of those gay white folks who are really upset that the work that they've done in the past is being marginalized by current activists. My partner was at those marches back in the late 80's/early 90's when it was not a parade, when a lot of participants wore paper bags over their heads and had to dodge ashtrays and beer bottles being thrown at them from the bars on Whyte Ave. It turned into a parade because for the most part that doesn't commonly happen any more. I feel bad that some people feel excluded though. Like I said maybe the whole thing needs a reset.
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I think there is some fairness in that. There is a balance somewhere of celebrating what has gotten better while also acknowledging that things haven't improved as much for everyone. I personally think pride has become very much on the side of celebration almost exclusively.
I'm just a gay guy, I'm cis and for the most part I comply to gender norms to an extent that I don't get much negative attention. In that sense I can't even pretend to really understand what many trans people, for example, have to deal with. I'm also not white though...although I grew up in Edmonton and I do typically feel like I have a slightly different perspective on things like police relationships and the racism in the gay community.
My first reaction to these things is a bit torn, because part of me does identify with the side that is pretty lucky and relishes the chance to celebrate that. But then it does also nag at me that there are lot of issues that seem to get swept under the rug to enable the celebration. It often feels like a substantial part of the community has the attitude of "things have gotten so much better for me - stop complaining" whether they intend to or not.
That being said, efforts to have that conversation aren't always productive and while I support speaking truth to power the tactics do often feel a but antagonistic and accusatory. But in many cases that is because attempts at calm dialogue haven't been successful.
I do think things are getting better, and the LG is starting to be a bit more open to listening to the BTQ but its a challenging discussion.
To be honest, I think the root of the problem is more economic than anything. I think society has found a lucrative market in a certain kind of relatively well off gay men - so the culture has evolved to embrace them. I think this is the problem with the corporatization of pride. The success of the events becomes dependent on money, but the money comes with strings, implicitly or explicit. TD bank is all about getting involved with nice gay families -but I bet they start to get a bit nervous when BLM gets involved. This stagnates the celebration and ties it to the current socio-economic-political norms that the sponsors feel are in their best interest.
I don't see a need for pride to reject sponsorship or corporate participation, but I think where things get tough is risking that sponsorship to align with movements that are consistent with pride's history. Without that money, the party may have to scale back. This is putting festivals in an awkward position when realistically, they typically signed up to run a party - not to stage a political protest. But I think its going to become harder to toe that line as the overall tone politics and obsession with "otherness" heightens. So that is why I think the cancellation is okay. Maybe taking a step back and trying to figure out what the whole thing is about isn't a bad idea.
This wasn't intended to an argue against you btw...your response just prompted me to take a moment and think through where my opinions are coming from.