Here's how I see the whole metro population vs. city population thing.
The metro area is like a dining room table, while the main city is like the centerpiece on that table.
So we've got the 34th largest "table" in the nation, and on that table sits the nation's 13th largest "centerpiece."
Some other places have bigger tables than we do, but smaller "centerpieces" on those tables.
....and yes, I've been drinking.
At my dining room table.
And it has no centerpiece.
Carry on.