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Originally Posted by miketoronto
I agree it totally depends on the people more than location (although in really sprawled suburbs I can see knowing your neighbours being a little harder as there is such a gap between houses).
I live in the suburbs, and we have one of the most close knit set of neighbours ever.
We hold each others keys when one goes on vacation. We buy gifts for each other when on vacation, etc. We chat on our porches together, etc.
We never really hang out and go out together. But we are connected.
My sisters live in the city, and they hardly interact with their neighbours at all. In fact on my suburban street you always see people out sitting in front of their homes, or doing yard work, etc.
In my sisters inner city neighbourhood, you almost never see anyone lounging on their front porch or doing yard work or anything.
But overall I think it is based on people more. And sadly in today's world, even what I have with my neighbours, I don't think is replicated much anymore.
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I think this decline in community has been going on for a long time in bigger cities.
A) TV - after TV one never HAD to leave home to 'see' other people, and, HAVE to obey Emile's
Rule of Ediquette while watching these photo luminescent images.
Look at old pictures of any US downtown on a Saturday night in the Tenderloin districts, or along department store row any time of the business day in 1910 and the places are packed. Look at pictures in the early 40s and every parking space is full, and people can be see walking between stores.
B) The automobile- enables us to flee from either our genuine fears or from the fears planted by real estate developers about race, ethnicity, and, income level.
We have become increasingly economically segregated via the subdivision/mall/freeway culture. We drive home in our (largely) class determined type of car, go inside, and, watch our racial, ethnic, and economically correct TV shows on ever larger screens.
C) The internet. Sure safer to say **** and **** ****** here than in a coffee shop or a grocery line. In addition, the internet, more so than cable TV, has Balkanized our interests into communities independent of location.
D) Democraphics- the older you get, particularly past 50, the more getting out and meeting people is a hastle, so why not stay home and ________________.
I have no doubt that this reduction in community ethos is present in Istanbul, Shanghai, Mumbai, Jahkarta, Manila, Tehran, Cairo, Lagos, Sao Paulo, Mexico City, among others, too.
More of us, world wide, are living closer together and desiring to smell and hear our human selves face to face, less by the year....