^I "lived" briefly in Burnaby, briefly in Richmond, and a longer stint in downtown Van (and commuting to either Burnaby or central Van)...though the traffic seems to move slower, I actually didn't find it any worse than most of Calgary's traffic...I think GVRD has done an excellent job at resisting interchanges and freeways, while still getting traffic flowing. After sitting on Hwy 97 in Kelowna (again) last week, I can say they have the worst traffic
I have heard getting to Surrey is much worse, and my brother and his family lived in New West - and that definitely added time.
In non-rush hour, I can make it to downtown from my driveway in Okotoks in 35 minutes (around 9:30am)....nearly an hour in rush hour traffic. And, I would have no right to complain anyway
As for the comment made about parks in Van vs Calgary, I would argue that outside of Stanley Park, Calgary's are just as plentiful outside of its core as well - at the very least. I guess it partly depends on what kind of recreation you're trying to look for...strolling on a beach isn't going to happen.
Freeweed - I agree with your comments of being "chained to a desk" as overblown.