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Originally Posted by chris08876
I'm just showing the concept. Even with HOA, its still a bargain. I'd rather buy than rent. Still, a Dallas McMansion is still cheaper than one in NJ or one closer to NYC in Bergen or Connecticut or Long Island.
But there isn't some sort of mystical or voodoo charm as to why some folks are leaving the expensive coasts. Bang for the buck means a lot for folks and if you can land a good job making similar or better than in an expensive state, seems like a good proposition.
Single folks without families can budge in many expensive metros, but you tack on a few kids, a wife, and all the bs that comes with a family, and it gets quite expensive. Day care costs, groceries, private school (because if you live in a dumb neighborhood, those tend to not have the best schools).
Renting is like giving that homeless guy in San Francisco your hard earned money. You will never, ever get it back. And than, you'll get a nice raise in your rent by the end of the year as a prize for your compassion.
Makes sense when one is young, but with families, if you want to build a decent net worth, buying is the way to go (for the common folks).
We must not forget the idea of order of magnitudes. We are talking about how DFW area attracting 2 million people by 2030. Its not just a select club that can afford those high priced neighborhoods.
When we are talking the common folks, we have to set the standard to show reality. A tree lined street in DoBro or DUMBO or Carroll Gardens is not reality for most folks.
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Buying is overrated. Say you buy a house for 300K and mortgage it for 30 years. You wind up paying close to 500k when you add in the interest payments and then the house is still most likely worth less than what you actually paid for it if you don't live in a area with rising values. Plus you have to pay all the upkeep and renovations. You don't own the house when you pay a mortgage. The bank owns it until you pay them in full. Then the bank expects you to keep up the property while you are paying the mortgage. Home ownership is costly. So the equity you wind up getting comes at price.
I "owned" for 20 years. I was always in debt trying to keep up the houses. I sold 5 years ago and went back to renting. I was able to increase my 401K and I have more liquidity. I'm also debt free. I love my apartment, I don't worry about having to pay for fixing anything and when I want to move, I don't have to go through the hassle of selling the house and paying someone a commission to sell it.
My advice is that if anyone who wants to own a home and make it worth their money, they need to put down no less thant 40% of the cost and take a shorter term mortgage. Being house poor only keeps you poor. Home ownership does makes sense for many but not for all. So when you tell someone like me I am wasting my money by renting, I will have to disagree because I made more money investing in my retirement account than the house I sold appreciated. In fact, the townhouse I sold here in Chester County, PA for 310K in 2014 is only showing being worth 337K now. That is a nice increase but I made about 6 times that increase on my retirement account by investing money that I freed up from having to pay for a house. It's just me and my partner, we are in our 50's, no kids and we had 20+ years left on a mortgage that we had refinanced twice. It made no financial sense to keep that house. I would have had to dip in to retirement savings to upgrade and replace on the house.
With housing so costly now, you really have to have a ton of cash to really make it financially worthwhile. Plus a nice neighborhood today can be a one in decline in 30 years. It's a gamble. At least with my account I can move it to something safe quickly if the markets start to tank. You can't do that with a house and many people found that out in 2008.