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Originally Posted by isaidso
I was born in London UK and my family emigrated to Canada (Halifax) when I was 11. Those are the formative years when we develop our sense of the world around us. We may move to other places and develop an affinity/love of another culture, as I did, but certain things have stuck with me my whole life. I'm most comfortable in a big city. I appreciated my time in Halifax and have a soft spot for it but knew early on that it's not a place I could stay permanently.
In my experience, a lot of people are like that. The size of city they're most comfortable in is correlated to the size of place they spent their first 10 years. Small town folk may move to the big city, but many end up moving back to a small town ... perhaps a little bigger than the one they grew up in. The small town friends I have who live in Toronto all live in areas with less density. None of them like living downtown. It's not true of all people of course.
I love the energy and sense of permanence one gets in massive cities. The constant flood of people, noises, smells, attractions, etc. I've always taken comfort in the monumentality of big cities/big buildings. It grounds me. A lot of people are drawn to the anonymity of big cities. I certainly am.
I do love nature but prefer visiting it. Strangely, if I couldn't live in a big city I'd live in the middle of nowhere a 10-20km trek to the nearest town. It's big city (Toronto or bigger) or wilderness. I don't get the point of anything in between. You don't get the urban delights of a big metropolis and you don't get full on nature. It's the worst of both worlds imo.
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Aw ok I see, I guess that's understandable.
For me I like Big Cities for visiting, never for living in.
(Even Calgary Is starting to get vastly too big for me & where
even still under 2 Million in Population).
& aw ok ic ic I guess that's understandable really. Personally for me though (As much as those
things are appealing & I can understand/ respect a person's desire to live in such a place),
I just prefer Cities that are either well planned or have everything I need within Short order.
If a Big City cannot provide this for me then I simply prefer smaller ones if It means I can
own larger property without it hampering my commute a whole lot. I dunno I guess it depends on what u prefer.
If u own alot of Property in a Big City then getting to work is more of a pain.
But if u like Apartment life then I guess a Big City is for u if u like to save time.
You can't have both though. If u live in a smaller City (Not only can u own a larger house more easily).
But the Population alone makes ur commute easier on you than if u owned a similar property in a
thriving metropolis for example.
My only problem with Big Cities is they basically force u to have to live in an Apartment.
(Not that that's bad I just don't think it's for everyone).
Smaller Cities I find give u more options without necessarily having to worry about
unnecessary Pedestrian & Vehicular Traffic. (Which is why I prefer them anyways).
& ya I guess that's a good point/ way to think of things. (As far as nature is concerned of course).
I still think the inbetweens are perfect. People who live in Cities like Hamilton or Kitchener Waterloo.
(Or even Increasingly Guelph these days). I think have it much, much better than those that live in Toronto.
(Property Prices, Commuting, Urban Amenities, Dwelling Options, Nature etc.) I believe Toronto only truly
has Urban Amenities over them. It's just too prohibitively expensive to own a House in Toronto.
(& even those that do most likely work downtown & now must commute which takes longer than
someone living in a Smaller City with fewer people & cars on the road).
Toronto may have a Subway but it doesn't mean their are lines for every Suburb or Neighbourhood though,
you would still have to commute just to the station. (Whereas in another smaller City ur basically already @ work
by this time). But Meh that's just me. Not to nitpick but I like to over analyze things.
(Which is why I came to the conclusion that smaller Cities are the best overall). Like Mid Sized 400-500k.