Steve, I limited my use of the word
white because I already know the way humans work (and I'm still learning). I fortunately (unfortunately?) lack empathy when it comes to people, it helps me chose certain processes which I believe are representative of humanity. I don't feel any guilt for having 5 maids as a kid, because a) they weren't below me or my immediate family and b) everything in life is relative (I grew up in Mexico). Guilt is not simply taught, it's a value of a society or group of people, rarely self inflicted. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't
try to understand with (or without) judgement as a forethought.
Bigotry is a human trait and to exclude this from the equation, along with our blatant lack of effort as a species, is silly. Accepting this helps us move on, together, rather than separately. I've met Vietnamese people who could give a rats ass about what Chinese people think, but they still wash their dishes. Why do Chinese eat shark fin when no scientific proof exists of any benefits? Why is a power-grabber in
many countries allowed to stroll freely with his sex slaves? I guess my point is that we all belong to the same species, but our belief as Americans that fairness is engrained in our societal
standards is misled, perhaps actually the opposite, you sort of said it yourself. We simply need to get rid of that distortion and whether one is able to reach their own conclusion based on temper or scrutinization says a lot about an individual. Not directed towards you in any way. It should be more obvious that not every human can reach certain milestones and integration should be a focus, not isolation of defamation.
There's always an instigator, and life as humans would be intolerable if we all look and think the same. We simply tend to focus on the loudest, most obnoxious ones, right or wrong, but too often on the latter.
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The food and grocery store topics Aleks makes are a good point but that doesn't really apply here. I was dating an Eritrean woman and we went to Leimert Park on MLK day and they had a festival, there were a good amount of white people there.
I'm sorry neighborhoods change and if these old Blacks with money don't like it look in the mirror and ask yourself what you could have done to produce more wealth for the next generation of people with your same skin color. The "I got mine good luck getting yours" mentality is so pervasive in Southern California I have seen it so many times even in my own family. These same people are also NIMBY's who have kept housing scarce so their values go up and surprise there are not tons of 40 year old Blacks who can afford to buy your 800k to million dollar home....
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I think affordable healthy food should apply to as many people as possible. I'm not familiar with Eritrean food but it's noticeable when people begin to get priced out of certain commodities. Bok Choy is a great green, I can get a pound+ for 3 dollars at the Asian market, it worried me when I saw a plastic container with 6 of the saddest Bok Choy bundles I've ever seen at Costco, for 2 dollars more!! The container was heavier than the greens inside! This is a staple, what about trend-set commodities like certain oils or 'superfoods?' I'm (would like to be?) sure an Eritrean-American has a different palate than an
African-American, many (but not all) who have been driven to eat cheap, severely unhealthy food, or none. One of my best friend's dad can recall a time when the butcheries would only sell them 'animal feed.'
"I got mine u get yours" is an American trait and, yes, to say it's
exclusive to 'us' or 'them' is wrong, some countries/cultures have it worse, some better, it's not limited to certain race groups. Simply people who've had less experience with certain phenomenons will think differently about them. Any African American who was born before the 60's will obviously be untrusting of Anglo's, we're talking about a country where lynching was common up until that time, not to even mention the countless of other injustices presented throughout their life. A society which stigmatizes is not a healthy one, and many of these people have been most of their lives, to this day. Of course that's not to say some are self victimized, especially those educated which self radicalize, but I know
many intelligent Blacks who aren't and have moved on, they simply live close-knitted and are seen as racist by others for it. Be it Native Americans or Latinos.
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^^ @ aleks: how do you propose to keep white people (and their damned blandness) from moving into predominately african-american neighborhoods?
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I haven't dug into their latest city-wide proposal but I've always believed it's the way to go, not massive housing developments.
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I don't have sufficient data or reason to do such thing. This might be a case about a prominent African American community but gentrification is a wide phenomenon. Why not widen the scope? It's not a bad thing, but developers always target minority (not simply race based) communities because they're the easiest targets. Lack of representation, purchasing power, assets, cheap land often in desirable areas (and often left during White Flight). The list goes on. Multi-district, city-wide tax credits for individuals should be prioritized, developers should get incentives for larger projects (relative to location of course) and the reduction of unused parking lots. Continued small business (i.e. discount markets) and food credits for vulnerable groups, along with
adequate oversight. Focus on non-racial targets, the elderly, single mothers, new immigrants legal or not, youth with potential and anyone who reflects humanitarian value, not simply American ones.