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Originally Posted by manny_santos
Bingo, and that really drills down to part of the root cause of why young people are increasingly valuing public transit as a means of getting around. The other reason is environmental consciousness. I know myself that I have never earned enough money to be able to afford even a used car; the job I have recently started does pay enough to afford a used Honda Civic. And I'm 26 years old.
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Well, if it's any comfort, things weren't any easier for me when I was 26, and that was 24 years ago. When I left university, I had to go to Toronto to find work, because nothing was available in London. While I wasn't exactly starving, I couldn't afford to live well, and a car was more or less out of the question until my father helped me find an older Pontiac Acadian that I could use to get to and from work in Markham.
Once I was on my feet, I traded up to a used '84 Olds Omega. But I ended up leaving Toronto because of the high living costs. So when I got back to London, the job I had didn't last long and so I had to sell the car just to stay afloat for a while.
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For what it's worth, the city I'm now in (Kingston) has a transit system far worse than London's. As a result Queens and St. Lawrence students barely venture away from campus, and I'm forced to live within walking distance of where I work until such time I can afford a car, which will probably be three months from now. At least I live in a good area.
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I once visited Kingston briefly many years ago and was surprised to see how spread out it is compared to other cities with a similar population. No wonder why public transit sucks there.
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As a side note, affordability of a car and house increases tremendously if you can find a significant other and/or get married. And perhaps that is part of the problem facing young people today; they are satisfied staying single for a long time and don't want commitment. Personally I'd like to find a significant other and get married, but it seems as though very few others are looking for that today, and those that are, are already engaged or married. It's tough being a 26-year-old single in Canada today; you can't afford the lifestyle your parents had at your age, and the other singles are career-focused and want to stay single.
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Agreed. When I got married for the first time at age 42, I discovered how much more affordable a nice house and a new car were with two salaries going into the bank account. But the marriage didn't last, alas.
I don't blame people not wanting to commit anymore, because when divorce happens, it's usually a messy, expensive and painful process that only enriches lawyers. Plus, too many men now are finding that women try to use divorce as a tool to cash in.
I was lucky. When my ex-wife and I broke up, we split the equity in the house 50/50, divvied up the other assets fairly and moved on. No kids were involved, so there was no chance of me having to make support payments.
I filed the divorce papers myself, and because ex-wifey didn't contest anything, it took less than six months for the whole thing to be finalized. Best $500.00 I ever spent!