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Originally Posted by Drybrain
Yep. We undersell ourselves by portraying the city as some sort of pleasant backwater where people might like to take a holiday, but barely consider that people might want to like, live here. And a lot of our expats, at least in my experience, form a sort of stay-way brigade warning people not to come.
Even locally, I'm often encountering the "Oh, I stay here because I love it, but I know I could be doing bigger things elsewhere" attitude. To which I think, "Could you? Really?" It's like a massive civic FOMO complex.
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Meh... I don't think it's as bad as all that. Though historically, there has been a certain truth to it, but it is not exclusive to Halifax.
I mean, it has always been a fact that there are certain industries centred in certain areas. Perhaps you have always aspired to be an aircraft designer for Boeing - then Halifax is not the place where you'll realize your dream. But then again neither are most cities in Canada. That doesn't mean there aren't other opportunities, but not being able to see the forest for the trees is not an exclusive Nova Scotian trait.
I think when people are telling you that "I know I could be doing bigger things elsewhere", they're blowing it out a little because if they had the moxy to pursue their dreams they would likely have already gone off to pursue them. So what I'm saying is that it sometimes becomes a convenient excuse for accepting moderate goals...
...or in some cases is a legitimate explanation for choosing to live in a place you enjoy vs a place that has your ideal career path. For example, a person may always have aspired to be a designer for Boeing but felt that the compromise of living in NS and working for Pratt was sufficient for them.
Regarding expats you've spoken to, it doesn't sound like their attitudes have driven them to lofty heights of success, so maybe their negativity towards Halifax is just a symptom of their particular mindset rather than a good representation of what the average NSer thinks. I don't know, but everybody that I know who has moved away from here would like to return some day, but most of them are too settled in their lives and jobs to want to throw it all into upheaval to move back (i.e. leave jobs where they've built up pensions, vacation time, benefits, etc. or take their kids out of school, leave clubs they enjoy, etc etc).
I'm thinking that maybe we are reading too much into heresay. IMHO, we should just do whatever we can, personally, to relate positive experiences when we speak to others regarding life in Halifax. That in itself will do more good than focusing on those who choose to be negative about it.