One of the biggest frustrations when driving in a city are when trucks double park, wiping out a whole lane. This happens in NJ a lot too in Essex or Hudson County. And they tend to do it when your not expecting it.
Another frustration is making a left at an intersection with no green arrow present to allow for the left turn. In some busy neighborhoods in the tri-state area, its a hassle. And of course, nobody gives you a damn chance, and they insist on blocking the box. So if your in a line of 3-4 cars wanting to make that left, maybe in the span between the light turning green and red, 1 or 2 cars will go.
This is especially frustrating under elevated rail tracks, in which, the pillars from hell are present.
See those pillars below or columns... these little bastards suck.
And the roads in certain parts of Queens do not match, so you literally have to dodge them. Factor that in with double parked trucks, and people not giving you a chance, its hell.
Exhibit A of a driving headaches:
Credit:
https://www.flickr.com/photos/jag9889/34041146875