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Originally Posted by lio45
Kinda mirrors my observations, but at the same time I'll add that Anglo North America doesn't feel that foreign either. And it's a bit of a continuum; the further I go, the least I feel like I'm "home". On the West Coast or the Great Plains I'll feel less at home than in NH or Ontario or Vermont. But the "cultural shock" is very mild.
I think I could easily make any place in Anglo North America my permanent home, though, while I can't say the same for Europe, even the francophone areas of it.
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It kind of depends for what for me.
For getting my bearings and settled in, then sure anywhere in Canada or the US would be more user friendly for me. Getting my driver's licence, paying my taxes, etc. Registering my kids for school and activities. Buying a house. All of that for sure.
For shooting the shit about life in general over a beer or a glass of wine, though, hanging out with people from France or Wallonia or Suisse romande is often a more ''let my hair down'' type of feeling for me than with other North Americans. It's even also true of some other non-francophone Europeans for me.
Not that I feel uneasy with other Canadians or Americans, but if we are talking about where I feel like I fit in the most, I am likely more relaxed and myself with a bunch of Swedes or Finns even, than with people from Saskatchewan or Nebraska.
EDIT: Of course, I have had and still have enjoyable times and even friendships with many Canadians from all over and Americans too, but it's just that if it's a roll of the dice type of situation, I'll take my chances with a random Frenchman or Dutchman over a random Albertan or Nevadan when it comes to things ''clicking'' during the evening. And this in spite of the fact that I'd likely have more cultural reference markers in common with the latter two.