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Originally Posted by 10023
Parents can move too. The more logical idea if it is important for children and parents to be near to each other would be for retired people to move close to where their working children can have a productive career.
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That scenario recently happened with some of my parents longest-time friends. It just so happened that both of their children ended up in the twin cities (one for job, the other married a minnesotan), and they were like
"both of our kids, and their spouses, and our 5 grandkids are all up in minneapolis, and we're retired now and can live wherever we want, so we should probably just move there."
It was extremy bittersweet for them, as they had to say goodbye to their entire community of life-long friends here in chicago, but grandkids win!
And my parents and the rest of their friends all completely understood their decision.
Another friend couple of my parents in that same group have four kids, who all now have children of their own and live in seattle, denver, atlanta, and boston respecfively. so, they're like
"none of our kids (and grandkids) live here anymore, but Chicago is not a bad spot to be in terms of being able to conveniently travel to all of our widely dispersed grandchildren". So, grandparents moving to grandkids isn't always a straightforward equation.
My folks are lucky because me and my sister, and all 6 of their grandkids, still live here in chicagand, so they have no reason to uproot their lives and start over in some strange land.