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Originally Posted by GlassCity
But that's the thing - you're listing all of these qualities that are supposedly inherent to masculinity, but what if you're a man without those qualities? Are you less of a man, and by extension a person?
Or do you think that people who lack these qualities are people that have been let down somehow? And if so, by who?
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Few men can tick all those boxes - that's why I say it's a wonderful thing to see in action.
If a man is lacking in one or more of those areas (God help you if you don't tick any of those boxes), then he needs to better himself. It's not easy but it can be done.
Unfortunately, most men are unaware of how useless they are. They've been let down by mom and dad, our education system, etc. They've let themselves down by getting sucked into a world of computer games, pornography and poker (I do like poker. ;-). They're fine, everything's fine.
They might meet a woman. She might tolerate him for a short time. Perhaps a long time. If she's aggressive, she might relish her domination over him. He might like it for a while, too. Getting pushed around, told what to do. But it's no way to live. It always ends badly for useless men.