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Originally Posted by BillM
Should we assume that most Americans enjoy the surburban lifestyle simply because they are living it? I wonder how many of us forumers that desire the urban lifestyle are more or less living suburban lifestyles.
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From my personal experience I can say that had I not stumbled upon a local group of people promoting urban living, I likely would have never considered it. I would have just gone on doing what my peers had done, what my parents had done and what I was used to. I didn't consider any other option and in this part of the country, you don't see any other option to even choose from in the first place.
I can imagine that if I were still an urbafile "outsider" and occasionally heard about some new development going in downtown, I would have dismissed it and even thought,,, How strange, who would want to live downtown? For I wouldn't know what urban living was like and how, even though Tulsa isn't there yet, if the trend continues and we keep building more living and pedestrian friendly developments, etc. it can be a very nice way to live.
Now that I have learned about how urban living can be and can see the options, now that I understand the nature of the potential choices, I definitely choose the more urban one and couldn't stand the notion of living in the suburbs, though I did at one time and didn't think anything about it because thats all I knew, plain and simple.
I think what got me to change was when I saw a great presentation that showed some really good urban living and gave some of the rules of pedestrian friendly streets and described the how and why of those rules(Form Based Codes in this instance, and there were already some budding pedestrian friendly areas starting to come alive in Tulsa) I could see it, and understand it. I was able to see a whole new picture. When your on the "outside" you only see parts of it (and even then its only in theory here lol which makes it even harder to "get") and from the perspective your used to, unless you get how it all works together, It won't make sense to you.
Example.
"Where do you park?" You walk or use transit.
"Why would you want to walk?" Good, pedestrian friendly streets are actually a joy to walk down. And its good exercise lol. And its good for the environment. etc.
"Transit costs a lot of money and nobody uses it" Roads cost a lot of money, cars cost a lot, insurance, gas, road maintenance, widening, expansion, etc. and if you create good pedestrian/transit friendly areas, people will gladly use transit.
"Urban houses are smaller for the price." For the urban dweller the city becomes an extension of their home. You don't need a mc mansion with a home theater, you can walk to the theater, you dont need a breakfast room, there is a sidewalk cafe or coffee shop nearby, the local pub is your den, the wonderful sidewalks your hallways, the neighborhood park your yard, etc. Instead of everyone building individual big fancy houses with fancy yards,,, together everyone builds beautiful public spaces that they share and enjoy with each other.
and so on....
So to recap.
A. You tend to do what your used to.
B. You may not "get" the other option.
C. You may not even have any really good examples of the urban lifestyle option around to see.
I think knowing the how and why we destroyed the urban lifestyle, in so many of our cities, is important. But thats only part of what we need to consider if we find value in the urban lifestlye and want others to see it too. We are going to have to...
A. Promote it, say "Hey, here is another option."
B. Then educate people about it, how its different but how it works.
C. Show people what good urban living can be like.