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Originally Posted by lio45
Southern U.S. metros in the millions range...? (And St. John's, if it were bigger, would still be like this, I have no doubt.)
I recall getting referred to as 'honey' regularly, that's in the same ballpark as 'mon cher', wouldn't you say? In St. John's they'd say 'my love' instead or something like that - which to me is even weirder.
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I was very precise in the types of people I was referring to (young people in a big city, addressing a middle aged guy like me) in order illustrate how more widespread the phenomenon is here. And apologies to SHH but St. John's is not a big city.
Sure there are demographics in most places that will do this to other specific demographics (but not to others) but a teenager male or female with a nose ring working in a Circle K in suburban Houston isn't going to call someone who looks like me "honey", trust me on that.
My sense is that people outside of Quebec in Canada and the US are much more preoccupied with not having any contact (verbal or physical) they make with other people being perceived as remotely sexual in any way - unless it's supposed to be sexual, of course.
It's like how Québécois people sometimes wink at strangers as a simple form of salutation.